I was starting to associate the mothers from the BSE with some character traits I see in all of them that have posted here. Manipulating liars who were so immature that could not discuss the situation without insulting others if they disagree. Playing the victim when people read challenge what they publish, even resorting to threats of lawsuits and imprisonment.
Heaviliy insinuating that they are going to do something (like call the law) and then saying they never said they were going to actually do it. If that's not frothing I don't know what is. Rabidly going against all adopters. Blaming all their problems on adoption and trying to get other birthmoms and adoptees to do the same.
Impressing me with ever new lows of hypocracy. This week's example is an increase in calling others pet names sarcastically and bitching when the same is done to them. Making up new names for PAPs but getting vapors over others well-intentioned use of the B-word. Talking shit about the APs to their children and critisizing the adopters for whatever they might have said that could have reflected on them poorly. Telling adopters that theres no way they could know how adoptees felt even if they are told directly but posting their own biological children's reflections as absolute fact. Abortion is not usually an adoption subject but it is this week because they want to post an article about it.
A lot of the hypocracy stemmed from their perceived superiority over anyone born poor. Thinking they are better than those who "game the system" by using the welfare program exactly as it was intended. Insisting that raising their child on welfare or minimum was not an option while suggesting that today's women do this with much less in real dollars and buying power than they were offered. Offering abortions even if they themselves could not do the same thing in what they claim was a much worse situation.
All roads always lead back to the BSE, but upset when their threads go off on a tangent. Always trying to control the forum in general, telling others they have no buisness here if they, for example, had adopted siblings. Trying to get others banned or get them to stop swearing.
Pathologically lying about not just their stories, but our nation's history. An example would be saying that welfare was only for nonwhites. Ignoring or Storming off when caught in a lie and coming back after they find a way to answer to it. It might be stretching the meanings of everyday words like "several" and "walks" obtusely when caught in a lie, or just making up a new one and hoping it doesn't conflict with what they already said somewhere.
Repeating things that we had already discussed here that were proven not to be true. An example would be saying things like white people were legally excluded from getting welfare and the 6 million.
So, so stupid. Insisting it's very likely that we'd have 2 BSE moms with multiple degrees on here at the same time, but there's just no possible way there could be 2 short redheads on the whole Craigslist forum system. Thinking that adults have to support their adult children and that you can get arrested for standing on a sidewalk. Blaming me for my own rape and being born to a heroin addict.
No matter how much pain someone is in as they type, the first priority is to make sure they understand that what happend 50 years ago was MUCH worse. Their pain is the worst pain there ever was, and their injustice was worse than the holocaust and slavery.
Because I participated very little in other forums, all of my interactions with mothers who surrendered during this time were like this. After having a very interesting and civil conversation with some others who also surrendered babies during that time, I realized that the vast majority of them are not that way. It's just Sandy Young and the grays. We have already established that Sliar has no problem making up elaborate first person stories to make her point, like the cadallac story. SNM and the grays here either or her or they are attached centapede-style. She gives them pure shit and they process it into ideas such as its okay to say there are armed guards where there are people who are stronger than you or if the cops arrive quickly if called.
I remember ElephantMom, she was cool until I doubted her story. This diverse group doesn't deserve to have deragatory slang made just for people in their group who also just happen to be surly pathological liars. For this reason, I am not again going to use the term "mad cow." I'd like to offer my sincerest apology to any BSE mother here who might have read that who is not like our now-closed open book here.
I was just posting in one forum, the Craigslist adoption forum which is now "hidden" at https://forums.craigslist.org/?forumID=2232 . Now that I've branched out a bit more I see how many of these women are good people genuinely concerned with making things better for the generations to follow.
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